So we found out the answer to our 4 month old question: Kingsley Harper Williams will be our daughters name. She is due March 13th, 2010 and I couldn't be more excited. Now that we can address her as a person rather than as "it" I feel more reality around the situation. I also have started a list of things I want to teach her and notes for her of important little tidbits of fatherly knowledge. It's an intense and amazing feeling, and I can't wait to see her.